November 2, 2012 ~ Grandpa Hafen's Funeral
I had Lucas write this post considering it was his Grandpa, Here is what Lucas wrote.
There is a lot to say about my grandfather. He was such an incredible man. He was always so kind and always wanted to help and serve others. I don’t have one single memory of him being upset or even frustrated. He was the most laid-back, down to earth man I know. He had such an incredible and successful life. I like to think that I got my athletic talent from him, but if that was the case, I would be in the NFL right now playing any position they need me to. But I absolutely loved my grandfather and I couldn’t have asked for a better example and friend in my life.
His funeral was both a happy time and a sad time. My grandfather was ready to go. My grandmother passed away over 10 years ago and he was just waiting for his time.
They first had the open casket viewing at the funeral. I was able to say my last goodbyes to my beloved grandfather. Then the ceremony went on and the daughters and friends talked a little bit about grandpa. Then, in the middle of the ceremony, all of the grandchildren sang a song that my mom wrote over 20 years ago for one of my grandfather’s birthdays. I believe it was his 70th birthday. Below are the lyrics.
My Grandma and Grandpa are special,
I love them in my family.
They do so much to make me happy
And show just how much they love me.
We may not remember all that you do,
Some memories may part.
But the one thing we'll treasure all through the years
Is the love we hold in our heart.
For days at the cabin with horses to ride
And popcorn for feeding the ducks,
Homemade bread and gum in your pocket,
7-11 and rides in the truck.
We may not remember all that you do,
Some memories may part.
But the one thing we'll treasure all through the years
Is the love we hold in our heart.
I can literally count the number of times that I have cried in my life and this was most definitely one of them. I had so many great memories with my grandpa and as we were singing this song, all of those memories just came flooding into my mind.
This song explains all of the memories that I have with my grandpa.
We would always go riding in his truck, talk with him while he was in his big recliner and go to the best restaurant in town- Chuck-a-rama!!
RIP grandpa. You were loved and admired by many. Thank you for the life you have lived, we will always remember you.